Great sex is all about angles -- the angle of his erection and your pelvis determine exactly what hot spots he'll hit and how tightly he'll feel gripped. That's why pillows can be passion's best friend. Try one under his butt while you're on top or supporting your tailbone in the missionary position. Or use a few to prop yourself up when lying on a counter. And don't be afraid to experiment with odd-size cushions, too. You'll be surprised how many new sensations you both experience just by adding a pillow.

Before giving him oral sex, position yourself so you're sitting to the side, almost perpendicular to his penis. Cup your hand around his member, creating a "bun" around his "hot dog." Then kiss the part of his penis that's exposed while breathing hard. Your hand will trap your exhalations and make his member feel superhot. With your other hand, work his testicles. He'll think he has died and gone to heaven.

Try the oral-sex technique that I call The Screw. As you're moving up his shaft with your mouth, turn your head a bit from side to side, letting your tongue follow a corkscrew pattern. When you get to the frenulum -- that part of the shaft just beneath the head -- be sure to lick it for a few seconds before moving all the way up to the top. Then repeat, moving down his shaft. What will drive him wild about this is that you aren't just going up and down -- you're also going sideways. It's 3-D!

I'm curious what others think of a technique I have used on my last bf and now my husband. They seem to love it. I enjoy it too but it's designed primarily for his pleasure.

This only works if you have an entire afternoon or evening with nothing planned. It's also best to plan ahead.

First, a couple of days prior, stop having sex. Second, talk about sex a lot and what your going to do to him at the specified day/time. Get him excited. Third, when the day arrives, have a couple adult videos available, a penis ring, any kind of vibrating device, and get comfortable in a private place in front of the TV. Start watching the videos and fooling around. Put the penis ring on him. Keep him hard but let the focus be on you. Intercourse is not allowed. Only hand play and oral. Let him bring you to orgasm...several times if you want. By this time an hour or so should have passed and he will be desperate for relief. Don't give it to him. Make him agree not to touch himself and to tell you if he feels close to cumming. For the next 2 hours you need to stimulate and then ignore him, off and on about every 5 minutes. You can suck him awhile and then go do a load of laundry. Vibrate his balls for a few minutes and then make a quick phone call. The adult videos will keep him hard even when you're not in the room. I like to keep my man in a constant state of peak arousal for about 3 hours. It may sound like torture for him but both guys I've done this with have wanted to do it again. Fourth, turn off the video, and remove the penis ring.

Let him decide how he wants to cum. In my experience, they want you to see how much cum they have produced and opt for a bj. It should take about 30 seconds and will be extremely messy. I'm a good sport and let them cum anywhere they want. It kind of drips all over anyway. My husband say's he sleeps great after one of these sessions.

I'm really writing this to moan and indirectly give advice to all the useless kissers out there. I must have started out lucky as far as partners are concerned as I never had anything to complain about before but recently, actually the last couple of years, I have had a series of girlfriends whose kissing frankly wouldn't arouse Clinton on a viagra drip.

    Sorry if the below is obvious but there are too many hopeless individuals out there to ignore. In my humble opinion when kissing:

    USE your tongue - lick, stroke, probe, push etc. Its a sensual instrument and can be used in all sorts of love play and kissing is no exception. Do not waste this God given muscle by leaving it limp in your mouth and conversely don't just stick it out and hope for the best. Timing is crucial. Read a situation - if you're both aching to get in to each other, then an all out offence with tongues blazing is great. But if you've misread the signs, jumping down his or her throat could be a premature manoeuvre and a bit of a turn off.

    One of my favourite ways to give or receive a kiss is to start slow and work your way up to a more vigorous tempo. Gently stroke your lips together or even start with the subtlest of brushes against your partner's cheeks, ears, neck, chin, whatever, and then introduce the tongue. A little lick across their lips to moisten and ready the area for attack before parting them and finally moving in. Again, pace yourself, there's no need to start wind milling around trying to see if you can dislodge any fillings. Of course once you get going, the sky's the limit and it's up to the both of you how energetic you become.

    Please, please, consider sucking. Suck your partner's lips and tongue. Even if you get all the motions down perfect, you're still missing whole chapters in the How to of Kissing if you don't suck. A kiss will always seem limp without the employment of this easy to learn skill. You can match their degree of sucking (for want of a better term) or be a Don and lead the way - varying from gentle tugs at their lips to a hungry hoover style.

When you are in the middle of a kiss you'll often find that there is an airtight seal (yes, we're getting technical!) as both mouths are clamped together. Conveniently this means that if both of you match "sucking pressures" it gives a further level of closeness, if you will. Like holding on to each other during a hug it's natural to draw your partner closer to you. In the same way, you can amplify your kissing experience.

I could go on and on but let me finish with one other important factor. Breathing - through the nose or through the mouth? Mid suck, it's impossible to breathe through the mouth but that doesn't rule it out. Some people like to breathe "through" their partner while kissing, whatever takes your fancy. Moving your attention from lips to other kissable areas is a good opportunity to catch your breath if you've had too many fags that evening. If your nose is clear then that's probably the way to go, leaving your mouth to do what a mouth has to do. If bunged up however, the sound of your breath bubbling through pools of snot in your sinuses is a sure fire way to lose romantic momentum. In some cases heavy breathing is a turn on, conveying a sense of urgency and sincerity, and sometimes it's not. So just use your head and adapt to the moment.

Last year for Xmas I couldn't think what to buy my partner - we'd been together for a while and he had everything. I got on the computer and printed him off some gift certificates. He had great fun cashing them in!!

I printed the gift certificates on the computer - made them look quite fancy and official - 10 different ones in all. They were for various different things (not all sexual!) but they were all things Chris (my partner) really liked - I'm not going to say exactly what so anyone who wants to do this for their partners will have to think of their own favourite things. Needless to say they were very much appreciated and to my surprise he carefully picked which gift certificate he was going to use and made them last for about a month!

My advice to anyone who can't think of a present to buy the one they love is put your thinking cap on, get on the computer and get creative!! Believe me its worth it - after all if you buy them the usual presents only he gets the benefit, this way its as much fun for both of you!!

Go and print out your own TakeMeToBed Love Vouchers!